Friday, 20 February 2015

Love with Caution on your friends in MOI

Loving cautiously doesn't mean that you've given up in loving your partner. The current trend and the new era of social media which has completely changed the meaning and the taste of love need a lot of caution and smartness especially when you are Moi University student. 
The things we slot in just in place of love surpass the previous precious meaning of love. The old ways believed that love was purely sacred meant for grownups only or couples, but the current trend is totally complicated in fact it's almost an era where innocence is a miracle.
Social media which has given birth to too many dating sites is really doing wonders in evolving and reshaping love. Sometimes when reality dawns you may completely lose savor of love when you realize that your partner is seeing potential in somebody else. But before you ruin your self-esteem and your love life here are some tips you need to consider and may help you love cautiously.
PHONE
You can easily predict when things are no longer working by simply observing the way your partner uses his or her phone. When some calls and messages are not answered or replied when you're together, don't wait for an explanation or for a second thought go on and insist for a reason before it gets too far.
We tend to shy off by letting people’s mistakes seize us down just because we fear the outcome of our actions. It's much better to ask your partner than keeping it a next time affair. The burdens that we keep in our hearts which later hurts can be more harmful to our health than we think.
FRIENDS
The type of friends your partner hangs out with can tell you more about the character he or she has. It’s not bad to interact with people but replicating their behavior and lifestyle can immensely affect one's self being and further complicating your love life.
At times some friends are not happy with your progress, if you are that kind of a person who spills everything about your love life, then you ought to take caution with love.
TOO BUSY
Sometimes we are too busy with work to the extent of forgetting the roles we have in life. Responsibility is not a personal affair especially when it concerns love; partners need to be together and more importantly standing for one another.
When we become too busy without a single day dedicated for love, then there's no love breathing in, in fact it could simply be friends with benefits than lovebirds.
THREATS
Many times we encounter threats in our love life, it's never bad to feel threatened in fact it gives you more strength to fight against the threatening forces.
The kind of threats here are those you get from your partners, usually when someone promising steps in to challenge your strengths by perfecting all what it takes to love.
This threat is no joke; it's a real challenge to a developing love story. However, when these threats make you insecure, too cautious or doubtful, then you will have to consider withdrawing or considering the second thought of loving cautiously.

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